Mobile Phone Etiquette - The Do's and Don't of Using Your Phone

Mobile Phone Etiquette - The Do's and Don't of Using Your Phone

Smartphones are a part of modern life—so much so that for many of us, they’re practically extensions of our hands. Whether it’s snapping pictures of your dinner, scrolling Instagram at brunch, or checking emails mid-conversation, phone habits are changing how we interact.

In cities like Chongqing, China, and Washington, DC, "phone lanes" for pedestrians glued to their screens have become a quirky response to the issue. But beyond amusing infrastructure changes, phone obsession can erode real-world social experiences.

In a survey by the American Trends Panel, 89% of participants admitted they had zoned out on their phones during their most recent social event. That’s nearly everyone. And it raises a fair question: when is phone use appropriate, and when is it just plain rude?


Social Awareness Starts with You

We’ve all been there—texting, checking alerts, or scrolling social media without realizing how disengaged we’ve become. But doing this at the dinner table, during a meeting, or while someone’s talking to you sends the wrong message.

Are you reading this while at lunch with coworkers? During a meeting? It might be time to reassess your phone habits.


Call Etiquette

Taking a call in public? Step away from the group, move outside, or at least find a quiet spot. Not everyone wants to hear your conversation—especially if it's private. If it’s an emergency, excuse yourself calmly.

And a tip: most of us raise our voice on calls without realizing it. So if you think you’re speaking quietly, try speaking even softer.


Be Present in Public

Don’t chat while checking out at the store or halfway through a conversation with someone in real life. Give others your full attention—even if only for a few moments. It’s a small act that shows respect.


Silence, Please

Meetings, meals, movies, dates—these are times when your phone should be on silent or vibrate, or better yet, off entirely. Of course, there are exceptions—emergencies, childcare, or medical responsibilities. In those cases, keep it discreet and polite.


Know When Not to Take a Selfie

Yes: the London Eye, the Eiffel Tower, a birthday party—go for it.

No: a funeral, a memorial, or any location that requires reflection or solemnity.

If you're using a selfie stick, be mindful of others and your surroundings. Not every moment needs a front-facing photo.


Cut the App Spam

Sending Candy Crush or game invites to everyone on Facebook? Not cool. Adjust your settings and save your friends the hassle. While you’re at it, disable auto-play videos—it’s jarring and unnecessary.


Final Thoughts

Phones are amazing tools. But using them with intention and awareness is key to being respectful and present. Good mobile manners aren’t about ditching your phone—they’re about knowing when to put it down.